Thursday, February 25, 2010
"you get used to it ... "
Thursday, August 13, 2009
slowwwwww going!
i have found that facebook offers a fun community feeling yet it does not offer the same type of atmosphere. one cannot lay out ones feelings on facebook. it is not acceptable. [the verizon commercial nailed the sentiment right on the head.] one must not express emotion on facebook. funny quote? put it in your status for the day. angry with your boss? status. countdown to college? status. but, feeling down because your joints ache for the fourth day in a row and your doctor doesn't have a remedy? keep that emotion hidden. there is no place for pain and/or angst on facebook [that is, unless you are taking one of the mindless quizzes].
not to say that i don't enjoy facebooking. i do. i'm a little bit hooked, in fact. i have the facebook application on my crackberry so i can get updates 24/7. lucky me, i know when someone has posted a picture of their painted toenails the moment it happens.
i am ready for something new.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Summer Update
since my last entry many things have happened. the best, along with getting engaged, is that my house is "safe." if the current administration hadn't imposed a foreclosure moratorium i would have lost it - not because i wasn't actively pursuing a resolution, but because i was not receiving responses from the corporations involved! for all the trouble i went through, i wonder how many people lost their homes because they simply ran out of time and/or patience. there were four - yes, four! - homes on my street that were abandoned [some fully furnished]. that's approximately 25% of the homes on my street. how sad is that? even worse is that i know, for a fact, that GMAC was the mortgage company involved with at least two of the homes [mine as well]. it disgusts me that so many people were screwed by them and, yet, they were allowed a bail out. i wouldn't have been in foreclosure if the company had accepted my partial payment last year when my roof and [entire] heating system had to be emergently replaced. instead, the company refused partial payment for the first month and refused further payment for the next two months until sending the home into foreclosure. i contacted GMAC's attorneys immediately to arrange payment and, subsequently, reached a deal with them. then came the wait .................
the papers never came despite my many emails and phone calls and, after my last email to their attorneys, i received notice that my mortgage had been "sold." coincidental that it happened around the time of the bailout ... >:( ultimately, after several stalled attempts [the current servicer lost pertinent info not once, but twice!] i was able to reach a DECENT service rep and my house is now out of foreclosure. my issue with the whole shebang is that there have been fees and penalties attached to my account - including an additional, mysterious $9K that appeared after the mortgage was sold by GMAC - that wouldn't have been there if "the other side" had done its job in a timely fashion. [i am still fighting the fees and penalties!] if anyone out there is experiencing foreclosure i highly recommend being patient and thorough. do not let corporate america take away your home if you know, in your heart, that you have done as much as you can to prevent foreclosure. all the foreclosure-related news that was on CNN [including statements from my state rep Marcy Kaptur, who suggested squatting] don't tell you that assistance programs are only as good as those who answer their phones. be vigilant about your account - keep records and notes - and if you don't receive responses, keep calling/emailing/etc. ultimately, it was vigilance and a timely intervention from the current admin via the moratorium that kept my house from foreclosure. while it will take more time to reach an agreement on the penalties and fees i know that, finally, my home is "safe." my payment is half what it was before due to a lower interest rate and extended mortgage term. those who are interested in this program and others can go to FinancialStability.gov hope it helps!
more later.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
My Grown Up Christmas List [neat idea, Missie!]
2. a [small denomination] home depot gift card so i can finish my house.
short list, i know. the thing is, i already have a great life and am so happy that i really can't think of anything else.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
dear santa [racy! lol]
my friend sent me a link that i'd like to share with y'all - am hoping you'll play along and post your results!
http://www.wtv-zone.com/LadyBoheme/dearsanta.htmlmy result:
Dear Santa,
I have been a good girl.
It really wasn't my fault what happened at joanna's Christmas party. It was brogan who spiked the punch with too much grey goose. I can't help it if I drank 9 glasses. It was so good---smelled and tasted just like sex.
I thought it was funny when I put emily's thong on my head and danced the tango on the coffee table while singing `ain't no other man'. I didn't mean to break joanna's pda and don't know why joanna would sue me for gross sexual imposition.
I don't remember calling tony's wife a honkin' heifer---even though she looked like one with black eye shadow and white lipstick!
And when I threw up on brogan's husband's vagina, it was only because I ate too much of that steak.
After all that fun, I admit I was a little tired. So I fell asleep on my way home and drove my hummer through my neighbor's bathroom. I don't think that was any reason for my neighbor to call me a felonious dog and have me arrested for breaking and entering!
So, Santa...here I sit in my jail cell on Christmas Eve, all flirty and rockin'. And I'm really not to blame for any of this sexy stuff. Please bring me what I want the most---bail money!
Sincerely and scantily yours,
tracey (Really a nice girl!)
Thursday, November 20, 2008
my little angel
hope all is well with you and yours!
Saturday, November 15, 2008
what movie quote best represents you?
play along, then leave your two cents when you've posted in your journal so i can see what movie quote best represents you! :)
my movie quote is from runaway bride. it has taken a long time for me to understand who i am and what i want from life. once married, twice engaged [the first less than a month, the second less than six]; i have found that the following quote most appropriately describes me. ironically, my best friend and my mum have both separately told me that i remind them of julia roberts' character, maggie.
Maggie Carpenter: I wanted to tell you why I run - sometimes ride - away from things.
Ike Graham: Does it matter?
Maggie Carpenter: I think so.
[takes a deep breath]
Maggie Carpenter: When I was walking down the aisle, I was walking toward somebody who didn't have any idea who I really was. And it was only half the other person's fault, because I had done everything to convince him that I was exactly what he wanted. So it was good that I didn't go through with it because it would have been a lie. But you - you knew the real me.